The first set of coordinates will take you to Sugar Ridge Cemetery. There is a sign at the front of the cemetery that tells a bit about Robert Nesbitt and has some information about his grave. It is in the middle of the cemetery and you will need to find it and get the year of birth and year of death. You will have to find the difference.
Subtract the number you came up with from n 40 55.890 and also subtract it from w 084 42.108. These will give you the final coordinates.The final stage is about a 2 minute drive. When you get there you will have a bit of bushwhacking involved. As both parts are in cemeteries there is no night cacheing. There is room for small items and I have put a couple travelbugs in to start with.
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